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Weight issues combined with FHS

SiriE

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Hey guys.

I made a post a few months back regarding my 10yo foster cat Finn who was diagnosed with FHS this summer. He also has overweight issues after stress eating the first months he was here (and in a different foster home) so he is about 6,4kg now when his optimal weight is between 4,5 and 5.

I took your advice regarding FHS and started addressing the underlying energetic factors so he is now working with a homeopath and an osteopath. None of it is so far showing much results, the homeopath is finding it a bit hard to find the spot on remedies. The osteopath has only been here once so I guess it’s too soon to say. But it is an ongoing process.

But here is the thing I feel the need to ask you about today. Finn is a foster cat and bc of financial issues I haven’t been sure if I could adopt him and take on the full medical cost myself. So he is still under the jurisdiction of the Animal Rescue Services (ARS). At first when he came here he was given regular kibble that the ARS gave me, but I started looking into FHS and learned that kibble is not the best because it is so dry and can have problematic ingredients like corn products etc, so I transitioned him to a raw diet. We have one company producing raw meat food here in Norway so I changed to that and combined it with some weekly snacks of fish, locally bought organ meat and regular store bought wet food. Also some steamed veggies here and there. The ARS wanted me to start him on weight loss kibble from their vets a few months ago. As I had big resistance to kibble because of what I read, and especially kibble that isn’t high quality, I didn’t do as they said and just kept him on a bit smaller dose of the raw meat in hopes he could lose weight that way. You guys said in my last post as well, that simply dropping the kibble could be enough for him to lose weight and that it should take probably a year or two. So I just kept that going.

But a few months later, a few weeks back now, the ARS were questioning me and putting pressure on me with how much weight he had lost and the thing is, he wasn’t losing anything, if anything he was gaining a bit still, which to me is super strange on a lower than recommended dose of that raw food. (The food amount recommendation from the raw food company was 4% of optimal weight usually, but then for weight loss I could try 3,75 or 3,5% of optimal weight so I was giving him 3,5%. They said to not go lower as that could cause nutritional imbalances). But alas, at least not yet, he wasn’t losing any weight and probably gaining some. It’s winter here now and he’s not a fan of the snow so he is very idle, that obviously doesn’t help a lot. He doesn’t quite fancy regular toys either so I’m not sure how to keep him active.

But the pressure from them made me just give in to give him the vet recommended weight loss kibble. I was feeling so frustrated, not knowing what was best for Finn, obviously it’s not great for him to be overweight either. But these past two weeks on the weight loss kibble he has been so frustrated. He is so hungry so much of the time, he seems almost depressed and weighed down in his mood, his sleep is more uneasy and he seems restless. That could also ofc be combined with boredom from not being able to go outside the same now that snow has arrived, but it was a noticeable shift when we changed tothat food. I hate seeing him so frustrated. And regarding the FHS, I feel his bodily discomfort has increased on this kibble. Not a huge leap in symptoms ofc, but it’s like his demeanor has changed to just not very happy. And it’s torture for my heart seeing him unhappy.

So I need your advice. I see that holistic vets on youtube and stuff recommends dropping the kibble, as I believe you did as well in my last post.

1. But my question is how do I prioritise?

I can go back to the other raw food while I try to learn more about optimal food for FHS (which can take some time I guess, I saw in a recent email from you guys a discussion board where someone said that maybe raw also wasn’t optimal for cats as it can create cold and damp. That wasn’t specifically directed to FHS, but I have a lot to learn and maybe raw isn’t the very best way either). But then I risk him not losing weight and potentially gaining some. Or I can keep him on the diet food, but he is not happy and I’m not sure what it’s doing to his FHS. That certainly doesn’t feel good.

2. How important is it for him to lose weight? Is that more import than adressing the FHS with more moist foods? I’m just scared I’m doing something bad for him if I prevent weight loss if I go against their kibble recommendation, but yet it doesn’t feel right to keep him this frustrated.

3. Are there resources or people you know of that I can learn from what the best diet approach is, that takes both FHS and weight into account?

I guess if I just adopt him it’s easier to do my own thing and not be under the ARS, but I don’t feel qualified to figure this out on my own anyway and I need guidance so I don’t cause him harm, mentally or physically. A therapist I’m working with myself has intuitive abilities said she picked up that his current frustration had to do with the food and that she would change back to the raw food. That’s obviously an alternative source of advice, but certainly didn’t help me feel at ease with this kibble approach.

Thank you dearly for any and all input you might have!

@Dr. Jean Hofve @Dr. Jeff
 
Hi Siri!
But my question is how do I prioritise?
Prioritise happiness and quality of life. Does he love the fresh or raw food? The more time he spends in his Zone of Joy, the better his body will be able to heal.


2. How important is it for him to lose weight?
Very, very important.

Obesity, despite a proper (fresh food) diet and some exercise, is a deeper symptom than FHS. The FHS will improve as he loses weight..
3. Are there resources or people you know of that I can learn from what the best diet approach is, that takes both FHS and weight into account?
Yes!! HA! Faculty member @Gail Pope would be a wonderful person with whom to connect.

 
Losing weight is a priority, and stopping high-carbohydrate kibble is the best way to do that. It is the carbs, not the raw, the protein, or even dietary fat that cause weight gain in cats--especially if they are not active. He could easily lose weight on canned only, if raw is a big problem for ARS. Weight control dry food is truly garbage and attempts to create a feeling of "fullness" with fiber, which has no nutritional value. But the ingredients are not good and leave the cat starving for the healthy protein he needs.

I'm sure the kibble is making Finn feel terrible. Maybe this article will help them understand why it's such a poor choice. 10 Reasons Why Dry Food Is Bad for Cats & Dogs | Little Big Cat - Dr. Jean Hofve

Cat experts absolutely recommend a wet food diet for cats, and in a case where you do not have authority, is a totally fine way to go. He will feel much better with the high protein and moisture of that.
 
Hi Siri!

Prioritise happiness and quality of life. Does he love the fresh or raw food? The more time he spends in his Zone of Joy, the better his body will be able to heal.



Very, very important.

Obesity, despite a proper (fresh food) diet and some exercise, is a deeper symptom than FHS. The FHS will improve as he loses weight..

Yes!! HA! Faculty member @Gail Pope would be a wonderful person with whom to connect.

Thank you so much, both of you. Your responsed made me cry. I feel exactly what you said, Jean, that this weight loss kibble is absolute trash and makes him feel terrible, but I don't know how to make the alternative work. He did appreciate the raw food and wet food much better, although I was only getting store bought, but the problem with that was that he was only gaining weight on it even though I was giving him almost minimum amount recommended from the company. So with that food I don't know how to help him lose the weight?? It's winter here now and he is very idle and is also easily overwhelmed by toys and gets scared, so keeping him active is very hard. How do I find a way with raw or wet food that also helps him lose weight? He really shouldn't gain anymore. What kind of problem could that be if he still gains weight on a raw food diet? And how do I help him with that? @Dr. Jean Hofve @Dr. Jeff
 
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Hi Siri!

Prioritise happiness and quality of life. Does he love the fresh or raw food? The more time he spends in his Zone of Joy, the better his body will be able to heal.



Very, very important.

Obesity, despite a proper (fresh food) diet and some exercise, is a deeper symptom than FHS. The FHS will improve as he loses weight..

Yes!! HA! Faculty member @Gail Pope would be a wonderful person with whom to connect.

Thank you so much @Dr. Jeff. He did appreciate the raw food and wet food much better, bit the problem with that was that he was only gaining weight on it even though I was giving him almost minimum amount recommended feom the company. So with that food I don't know how to help him lose the weight?? It's winter here now and he is very idle and is also easily overwhelmed by toys and gets scared so keeping him active is very hard.
 
In 30+ years I only had one cat gain weight on an exclusively wet diet. Now two, I guess! Give him a little time. He is eating to make up for nutrients he’s been missing. He will ultimately stabilize and start losing.
 
In 30+ years I only had one cat gain weight on an exclusively wet diet. Now two, I guess! Give him a little time. He is eating to make up for nutrients he’s been missing. He will ultimately stabilize and start losing.
That makes sense, but I have given him only the minimal amount recommended so he’s not been eating as much as he wants, could that still be why he is gaining on that amount, what you said? That he is making up for nutrients? It doesn’t make sense that he is gaining on such a low amount. Should I then keep him on that same amount and just wait and see ifit stabilises there?

It makes sense what you say because when he came to me he was pretty much his optimal weight, but he had been going outside needing to find his own food for about a year so probably was lacking nutrients. He was absolutely ravenous with food when he came here and he had unlimited access to the dry crap kibble the ARS provided and that’s when he started gaining rapidly. I expected the weight gain to stop when I changed to the raw food and started giving measured portions and was very surprised when it didn’t.

(Just to clarify, I’m not giving him fresh meat, it’s a frozen raw meat with chicken meats and beef liver that I thaw, combined with a tiny bit of fresh meat every now and then, but first and foremost a frozen store bought raw mince. And I have been giving him 3,3% of optimal weight (165g daily).) @Dr. Jean Hofve
 
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